Love it. I’m over twenty, too :)Reblog if you’re a weight loss blog and you’re over 20. Everyone in the tumblr old folks home should have a friend to jazzercise with!
I decided to make a magical graphic for everyone to reblog because it seems like there are a lot of us out there but we often have trouble finding each other and gaining support. Reblog, follow, and make friends! <3
21 in August!
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Lose Weight, Gain Body Confidence? Not Necessarily, Says Purdue Researcher Sarah Mustillo
I did not write this article. You can find the original source here.

It ain’t necessarily so what so many dieters say — that when they lose weight, they’ll gain body confidence. So concludes a new study about the lingering stigma of obesity in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior. While overweight black girls did feel better about themselves when they lost weight over the course of the study, overweight white girls did not.
After analyzing 10 years of data on more than 2,000 black and white girls from the National Growth and Health Study, Purdue sociology researcher Sarah Mustillocan’t say exactly why the effects of obesity-related stigma lingered for the white girls, but not the black. That’s a subject for future study.
What the good sociologist can say: The black girls’ self-esteem bounced back when they lost weight in early adolescence. However, when the white adolescent girls lost weight, their self-esteem remained flat. What’s more, despite their lower body mass index, both groups continued to have negative body perceptions. In other words, the body image of both the black and white study subjects got stuck in time
“Despite changes in their relative body mass,” Mustillo said, “we found that obese black and white teen girls who transitioned out of obesity continued to see themselves as fat.”

I filed these intriguing findings for future reference, but I couldn’t stop wondering: What is it about our culture that makes it so darned hard for girls to have good body image? Why, in fact, does bad body image plague America’s great, multi-generational sorority?
To answer these and other questions, I decided to do what I usually do — pick the brain of this compassionate mind for illuminating insights. I am also going to make my phone interview with this body image researcher the first in a new blog series on changing bad body image for good. What follows are questions and answers from my recent long-distance chat with Mustillo.
Q. Everyone talks about body image, but what is it exactly? What’s your best working definition?
A. There are a lot of different definitions of body image. The working definition I use is an individual’s perceptions, thoughts and feelings about her body, and how they’re shaped through interactions with others and within a larger societal context.
Q. What moved you to explore body image in teen girls?
A. If the current national movement to end childhood obesity is successful, we can anticipate many young people moving from obese into the normal weight range, which will result in better physical health. I wanted to know if the same thing would happen for psychological health.
Q. What’s the story behind the study? Did you struggle with bad body image as a kid?
A. The truth is I was a skinny girl. I didn’t struggle with weight, nor did I really realize that some people wanted what I had. At the time, being thin and curvy was the ideal. I was too busy focusing on the fact that I wasn’t curvy to be happy about being thin.
Q. Your conclusion is surprising, especially for dieters who believe that if they could just lose weight, they’d gain body confidence. What surprised you most about your findings?
A. People who lose weight may gain body confidence, it just may take longer than what one might think. We only followed these girls for a short period of time. Maybe if we would have followed them for another year or two or three, we might have seen an increase. My fear is if it [gaining body confidence] doesn’t happen soon enough, people might lose the motivation to stick with it [losing weight]. What surprised me most was definitely the body-image finding — that these girls continued to see themselves as heavy. Even as their bodies were changing, their perceptions of their bodies were not changing. To me, it speaks to the fact that the ideal is truly unobtainable. Even if they were getting closer, they still saw it as out of reach.
Q. How do you understand why black girls felt better about themselves after losing weight, but not white girls? What’s the cultural difference?
A. There is evidence that black girls may be more accepting of different body sizes than white girls. At the same time, self-esteem still appeared to be tied to weight for the black girls. Because when they transitioned out of the obese range, their self-esteem improved, but their body image didn’t change very much. To me, that says there’s less of a link between body image and self-esteem among black girls than white girls. But that’s something that requires a whole lot more research to understand.
Q. You’re a sociologist. What is it about our culture that makes it so hard for women of all ages to have good body image?
A. Body image is so tied up with our overall sense of self. So when we look in the mirror and feel deficient, or look at another woman and feel “less than,” it isn’t just about body. It’s about a deeper sense of unworthiness, and that just gets expressed in the body. You know, if I look at another woman and think her hair is so much nicer than mine or whatever, pick a body part, it’s likely that she’s got nicer hair. But it’s also likely that I think that woman is better than me in other ways — nicer than me, smarter than me, a better mother than me. It’s not really about the body. It’s about a deeper sense of feeling less than, or in competition with, other people. That goes hand-in-hand with our culture emphasizing individuality, independence, and that life is a popularity contest. We’re in constant competition with each other, which encourages us to be critical of others and to be critical of ourselves.
Q. If weight loss doesn’t improve body image, what does?
A. On a fundamental level, compassion for ourselves and others, and connectedness with others, might improve body image. I try to see myself the way I see my children — beautiful, precious, incredible beings. To me, that’s self-compassion. In terms of connectedness with others, it’s helpful to remember that underneath all our physical differences, we’re all emotional beings with needs and insecurities. If we can see other people with that same sense of compassion, then that could reduce the [sense that] life is a popularity contest. But that’s hard enough for grown women to achieve, much less for teenage girls. On a more practical level for teenage girls, deemphasizing physical appearance and emphasizing other aspects of who they are helps. For example, there are studies that show girls who have a strong sense of identity in a role, like musician or athlete, have better body image because they locate more of their sense of self in that role than in what they look like.
Q. Do you think it’s really possible to significantly alter body image?
A. I do. I just don’t think it’s as simple as doing some self-help exercises and being done with it. It’s such a bigger societal issue. It needs to be addressed on several levels.
Q. What else needs to be done?
A. In a nutshell, I would like to see more work on racial differences and the cultural context of what defines ideals, how those ideals get transmitted to girls, and how that affects self-esteem. People always point to the media [as the source of white girls’ body ideals], but what about black girls? Are they getting it from the media as well, or are there other sources? Also, I’d love to see more research done on ways to combat stigma in this area — obesity — and others.
Q. What’s next for you and your research team? Are you already hard at work on a new study?
A. Of course! We are finishing a follow-up study on the same group of girls that examines parents’ and friends’ fat-labeling on mental health. In other words, the long-term effects of being told “You’re fat!” by your parents or your friends, and how that affects mental health.
Q. A recent Canadian study on body image, self-compassion and self-esteem showed what my clients have shown me — that more than self-esteem, greater self-compassion is associated with better body image. Any interest in studying the effects of self-compassion-enhancing techniques on body image?
A. I think that would be a fascinating study! I would guess that greater self-compassion is associated with better body image, and that better body image is associated with better self-esteem. I would bet that you’re right — that it starts with self-compassion and ends with feeling better about yourself.
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I finally put together my before/after with the same background.
Before: 174 lbs
After: 134 lbs (lost the healthy way!)
5’5”
edit: I am editing this because I see a lot of thinspo blogs reblogging this. I just want to say that I lost my weight the healthy way (exercise and eating healthy foods- I eat an average of 1200-1700 calories a day) not through starving myself or disordered eating. You don’t need to starve yourself to lose weight! I don’t want my images to be used to encourage anyone to adopt unhealthy habits. Please visit my blog and check out my section “How to Lose Weight” and the other pages I’ve created. Please educate yourself. You don’t need to harm your body and mind in order to lose weight!
Source: th3skinny
Before Stats:
Age: 22
Weight: 157 lbs
Height: 5’5.5”
Body Fat: 25%
After Stats:
Age: 23
Weight: 120 lbs
Height: 5’5.5”
Body Fat: Less than 10
ew. this isn’t even cute though…I’d rather be slightly doughy than look like steroids. Definitely gonna say the before is better.
Girl, not everyone’s goal in life is to look “cute.” lol
shoulda known I was gonna get hated on for saying that. I’m not “slamming” anyone. I coulda been like “OMG gross wtf who would ever want someone like that go die”. No, I simply said the before was better, and it is. Not only for aesthetics but 10% body fat is not safe for a woman, especially if she plans on reproducing. This chick basically took every ounce of femininity she had and mutilated it. If that’s what she was going for, then BRAVO. I prefer my chicks to look like chicks is all… ‘nuff said
I agree that 10% body fat isn’t healthy. I’m with ya there. But I don’t think there’s only one body type that’s “feminine” or that we all need to be feminine. But that might have something to do with the fact that I kinda like my chicks to look like dudes, and the fact that I’ve had people comment on my before and afters saying I looked better before or saying I’m less attractive now, and that shit hurts, man.
Source: theorganicavenger
Before Stats:
Age: 22
Weight: 157 lbs
Height: 5’5.5”
Body Fat: 25%
After Stats:
Age: 23
Weight: 120 lbs
Height: 5’5.5”
Body Fat: Less than 10
ew. this isn’t even cute though…I’d rather be slightly doughy than look like steroids. Definitely gonna say the before is better.
Girl, not everyone’s goal in life is to look “cute.” lol
Source: theorganicavenger
Before Stats:
Age: 22
Weight: 157 lbs
Height: 5’5.5”
Body Fat: 25%
After Stats:
Age: 23
Weight: 120 lbs
Height: 5’5.5”
Body Fat: Less than 10
(via fatasstoskinnybitch)
Source: theorganicavenger
Q:how many grams of sugar is a healthy amount if packaged food such as cereal, oatmeal, etc.?
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- The American Heart Association (AHA) recommends: 37 grams for men (150 cal, 7.4tsp) and 25 grams for women (100 cal, 5tsp).
- The United States Department of Agriculture (USDA) recommends: 32 grams (128cal, 6.4tsp) for a 2000 calorie diet.
- The American Diabetes Association (ADA) doesn’t provide specific guidelines but claims that it can be substituted for other carbohydrate sources, in moderation.”
In general, it’s best to limit your refined sugars (the sugars found generally in man-made or processed foods) and to stick to more natural sugars, like those found in fruits or raw honey. I hope that helps a bit!
Source: before-and-after-pictures
Loss of 55+ pounds!
I was getting dressed today and I was thinking… wow… I actually look kind of good today (VERY rare thought).
So I thought I would snap a picture to show you guys the difference between now and my beginning!
This is this morning:
ANNNNNNND 55+ pounds ago
Anyways. Just thought I would share.
Cool beans.
Have a good day, everyone :)
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Q:How do you feel alcohol affects weight loss?
It definitely hurts it! While a few drinks here and there won’t stack up to a huge difference, they all still add liquid calories with no nutritional value.
And if you’re actually getting drunk, not only are you consuming a ton of uneeded calories, you’re also more likely to eat unhealthy foods, get little sleep, not be active the next day, and make poor food choices the next day — not to mention be dehydrated and damage your body in other ways.
It is possible to lose weight and drink, and I have a drink every now and then, but it definitely hurts weights loss, no question.
Since we all get this question a lot, I thought I’d create the long, arduous, all-inclusive guide to weight loss, starting at the very beginning.
Weight loss = calories in vs calories out. To lose weight you must create a calorie deficit. How do you do this?
1. BMR - Basal Metabolic Rate
Your BMR (or basal metabolic rate) is the amount of calories it takes for your body to run if you were in a coma. It’s the basic amount of calories your body requires to breathe, process life, etc. How do you find our your BMR? There are some online calculators, but most of them suck because they don’t take into account body fat %. For every pound of lean body fat you have you burn more calories than for every pound of fat you have. Click here for my favorite BMR calculator. This calculator also shows you how many calories to eat to lose weight based on the average of three separate BMR calculations. It also helps determine how much fat/protein/etc. you need. Tip: Use one activity level below what you think you actually are.
Why can’t I just eat my BMR?
If you don’t exercise and live a very sedentary lifestyle you always could just eat at your BMR. But if you’re an active person who exercises a lot, or just is always on the go, eating at your BMR is likely not going to give you enough energy to get through your day. Best bet is to use the calculator above and go from there.
What about BMI?
BMI is not a reliable indicator of health or weight. All it takes into consideration is height, weight, gender and age. Someone who is 5’4 and 145 pounds of muscle has the same BMI as someone who is 5’4 and weighs 145 pounds of mostly fat. Ignore it.
2. Counting Calories
Counting calories is not necessary for weight loss. Some people simply watch their portions, sugar, macros, etc. Some people just do what they want and lose weight or maintain. Good for them! They’re probably not reading this article because this is weight loss 101 for people who have trouble with this. Here are some great sites to help you count calories…
A lot of these also have apps for Android and iPhone.
Measure/weigh your food
A lot of people UNDERESTIMATE the amount of food they eat. For this reason I suggest not eyeballing your portion sizes until you understand what 100 calories of oatmeal looks like.
Gaining pounds
Give this process time. Say you start tracking your calories and you see that after a week you’ve gained a pound. Well, first of all, the scale is kind of a big lying loser. Second of all, the scale weighs everything. It weighs the water you drank, undigested food, that you’re wearing a padded bra today, etc. However, the scale can be helpful in tracking if your calorie count is optimal. If you’re gaining weight you may need to lower your calories, measure your food more precisely, or start exercising. Also, eating a high carb meal causes water retention. There are a lot of factors around why you may not be losing weight. If it is continually a problem, see a doctor, not Tumblr.
3,500 = one pound
Eating 3,500 calories in one day will not make you gain a pound. Eating 3,500 calories OVER your maintenance calories in one day will make you gain a pound. This means if your maintenance is 2,000 calories you’d need to eat 5,500 calories in one day to gain a pound.
Diet is the #1 reason behind weight gain/weight loss.
Eating “clean” to lose weight
Like I said, calories are all that matters when it comes to losing weight. When people tell you the reason you’re not losing weight is because you’re not “eating clean” they’ve been brainwashed by the new face of the diet industry. Fact of the matter is that you can gain weight eating “clean” and you can lose weight by eating “dirty.” What you should focus on is how food makes you feel. Don’t eat food that makes you feel bloated, sick, run down, tired, etc. Eat food that makes you feel satisfied but not sick, energetic, efficient and happy. These foods mean different things for different people. Find what works for you and don’t let anyone talk you out of it.
Myths
You don’t need to eat every 3-4 hours, that’s a myth
“Starvation mode” doesn’t exist like we think it does
If you eat into a deficit your body will burn fat, not muscle
Don’t restrict types of food for the sake of weight loss, you’ll eat them anyway
3. Exercise
Exercise is not necessary for weight loss, or fat loss. Exercise is necessary for muscle gain and getting away from the “skinny fat” a lot of people worry about. Exercise will help build muscle mass, which increases your BMR. Also, since muscle is more dense than fat, you can weigh more but look skinnier. Muscle is pretty bad ass.
Exercising Away the Calories
This is a slippery slope as most people tend to OVERESTIMATE the amount of calories they burn from exercise. Doing so can set back a lot of progress. On the other hand, people who run 12 miles every morning should eat more to make up for their long run. Find a good balance. Is it the afternoon after a long run and you’re ravenous but almost up on calories? You need to make up for the energy expended. Running one or two miles every day is not sufficient to eat 500 calories back. Likewise, if you just PRed your squat, deadlift and bench press today you may need to eat a bit more than usual. 1 hour pilates class? Probably not so much. You know your body best - if it’s tired, feed it.
Type of Exercise
The type of exercise you do should make you happy. That is all. Forcing yourself to lift/run/cycle/zumba/etc. when you hate it will make you resent exercise. For basic weight loss you can do pretty much anything that gets you moving and invigorated and be just fine.
I want to lose weight here…
You can’t spot reduce, but you can spot train. Increasing your heart rate = all over fat burn. Exercising a specific area = increased muscle mass. Super easy. Also, as a woman it’s nearly impossible to look like the Hulk. Women can, and should, strength train.
Always have a plan
Working out without a plan is appropriately titled “Fuckaroundits.” Having a plan ensures that you’re getting the most out of your workout. Work smart, not hard. If you’re a newbie to the gym, here’s a list of plans to help get you started.
4. Plateaus
Plateaus can happen for a number of reasons. Make sure you re-read the above advice if you’re in a plateau. Due to an increase/decrease in weight/muscle/etc. you may need to refigure your daily caloric needs. Additionally, if you’ve suddenly given up/taken up a new form of exercise your diet may need to be tailed appropriately.
Are you measuring your food so you’re not underestimating calories?
Are you tracking your heart rate so you’re not overestimating calories burned?
Are you sticking to your meal plans/portion sizes/etc?
Is your goal realistic (i.e. 5’4 and 56 pounds may not be a realistic goal)
Do you have fat to lose?
Have you tried upping your intensity/decreasing your calories?
If you’ve done all of the above then this is what you must do: see a doctor. Or a nutritionist. Bring your meal plan, exercise diary, etc. If you have these problems you need to see a professional, not a person on Tumblr. Also remember that you are only as accountable as you hold yourself to. Not counting your snacks, rounding up miles run/set complete, etc. only hurts yourself in the end.
5. Why lose weight?
This is a very important question to ask yourself. Why are you losing weight? Is it to get healthy? Is it because you’re genuinely concerned about your body? Is it so that you’ll get on a team/have a boy/girl like you, etc? Think of the following things…
1. Why am I losing weight?
2. Are my goals realistic?
3. Am I losing weight for myself, or am I losing weight for someone else?
4. If it’s for someone else, why? What makes them so important? Will they always be this important to you?
Make sure you fully understand WHY you want to lose weight. This way if you ever find yourself losing motivation or having a hard time you can focus on this. Remembering why you’re going down this path is just as important as remembering what the path is.
That’s it. That’s all you need for weight loss.
Source: barbellsandbeakers.com
Q:I've been really conscious of what I've been eating and all that. I've been working out my whole body, and been trying to especially go at my core. The results haven't really kicked in yet, but can you recommend any diet pills (NOT Alli, that's death), as I need some extra boosts? Thank you~
I’m sorry, but I’m not in the business of recommending diet pills. Healthy weight loss takes time. I lost 40 lbs, but I lost it over the course of a year. But no matter how long it took, I’m still 40 lbs lighter than I used to be — and a lot healthier! My advice is to be patient, trust the process, and don’t look for shortcuts or quick-fixes.
<3
Depression, Poor Body Image Result From Negative Talk About Weight
This article comes from medicalnewstoday.com

A new study, published online in the National Communication Association’sJournal of Applied Communication Research, reveals that conversations in which individuals perceive themselves as being fat may be damaging to their mental health. ‘Fat talk’, i.e. ritualistic conversations about one’s own or other peoples’ bodies, can result in decreased body self-esteem and higher levels of depression.
Leading author, Analisa Arroyo, a Ph.D. student in communication at the University of Arizona in Tucson declared:
“These results suggest that expressing weight-related concerns, which is common especially among women, has negative effects. We found that fat talk predicts changes in depression, body satisfaction, and perceived pressure to be thin across time.”
Arroyo and Jake Harwood, Ph.D., professor of communication at the University of Arizona, collaborated on two surveys that involved undergraduate student volunteers at the university in order to establish whether ‘fat talk’ was a cause or outcome of body weight concerns and mental health issues.
Their first study involved 33 women and 24 men, who were almost 21 years old on average, and who were asked to respond to a series of online questionnaires over a 3-week period. The surveys contained questions regarding their body satisfaction and how they perceived pressure from society to be thin, their level of depression and self-esteem, as well as how often they engaged in ‘fat talk’.
The researchers defined ‘fat talk’ as comments about what the participants’ eating and exercise habits should be, their concerns of becoming overweight, how they perceived their own weight and shape, as well as how they engaged in making comparisons with other people with regard to these issues.
The findings revealed that overall, regardless of the participants’ sex or body mass index, the more frequently someone participated in ‘fat talk’, the lower their body satisfaction became and the higher their level of depression became after three weeks. A statistical evaluation showed that regardless of the fact that the first study was unsupported, the second study did show evidence that body weight concerns and mental health issues were indeed a result of ‘fat talk’. The second, larger study involved 85 women and 26 men who were 21 years old on average, and consisted of a 2-week series of online questionnaires. However, during this larger study, the researchers distinguished between ‘talking’ ‘fat talk’ and ‘listening’ to it.
The result demonstrated that low body satisfaction had a substantial impact on talking more ‘fat talk’ and talking ‘fat talk’ subsequently substantially led to higher depression over time and greater perceived pressure to be thin. In contrast, the outcome revealed that listening to ‘fat talk’ was neither a cause, nor a consequence, of body weight and mental health issues.
According to Arroyo, the latter outcome is very interesting, as it contradicts published media effects research, which demonstrates that exposure to listening to media messages can impact a person’s body image.
Arroyo concluded:
“Interpersonally. However, this is not happening. It is the act of engaging in fat talk, rather than passively being exposed to it, that has these negative effects.”
The study, “Exploring the Causes and Consequences of Engaging in Fat Talk” will be published in May’s 2012 print issue of the Journal of Applied Communication Research.
Source: th3skinny
Weight loss doesn’t determine girls’ self-esteem boost

By CHRISTY HUNTER Features Editor purdueexponent.org (view original article here)
“If I could just lose weight, I know I’d be happier.”
At some point in their lives, many young women have turned this thought over and over in their minds. But according to the research of Sarah Mustillo, an associate professor of sociology, this misconception has statistically been proven false.
Mustillo’s study examined the effects of weight loss on the self-esteem of 2,200 girls. Researchers followed the mix of black and white girls for 10 years, starting around the age of 10.
To measure weight loss, researchers kept track of the girls’ body mass index, a formula which uses height and weight to gauge physical health. To measure self-esteem, they tested body image discrepancy, a tool that compares the girls’ vision of their own bodies to their visions of the “ideal” body.
What Mustillo found is that white girls who were overweight at the age of 10 continued to see themselves as fat into their later teens, despite their BMIs proving otherwise. This persistent belief of being “fat” is why Mustillo hypothesizes the girls’ self-esteem didn’t improve.
“It’s like this image they’ve internalized of themselves,” she said. “So that was the same for black and white girls. They still continued to feel like they didn’t have the ideal body because the distance between how they rated themselves and what they rated as the ideal stayed the same.”
Alexis Holt, a freshman in the College of Health and Human Sciences, can attest to this personally.
In middle school, Holt considered herself to be “really overweight” at 200 pounds. After changing her eating habits, such as substituting four sodas a day for water, she lost 50 pounds in high school.
Holt was showered with many positive comments from her friends and family. To her surprise, however, she never felt the confidence or urge to show herself off like she expected.
“After I lost the 50 pounds, I felt better about myself, but every time I looked in the mirror, I still felt the 200 pounds,” she said. “I was expecting to, you know, be really confident and be like, ‘Oh, look at me.’ But I never did.”
Mustillo hopes her research will help address these lingering self-image issues by demonstrating the importance of mental health in weight loss interventions. Citing programs such as Michelle Obama’s “Let’s Move” campaign, she said many interventions don’t focus enough on this.
“There’s been less attention paid to the emotional health impact of being overweight and living in this stigmatizing condition where you experience rejection and discrimination,” she said. “I wish that all of this emphasis we have on fighting childhood obesity would add a mental health component.”
Annie Mahon, the Student Wellness Office’s nutrition education program coordinator, agrees.
She said obesity interventions tend to neglect mental health, and they don’t address it “nearly as much as it needs to be.”
“’Eat more fruits and vegetables; drink more milk.’ (People) know this already,” Mahon said. “But the question is why they don’t do it, and the why they don’t do it is often related to mental health.”
Mustillo said a lack of consideration for emotional health may help explain why it’s so hard for people to keep weight off once they’ve lost it.
“If you continue to see yourself as fat, and you continue to feel bad, to me, I think that would remove some of the incentive to keep the weight off and keep working hard,” Mustillo said.




